Our baby boy was born with a birth defect called
hypospadius. This meant that the urethra
was in the wrong spot. It wasn't a
horrible case, but enough to require surgery for our baby boy.
We had the surgery done and he was recovering at home. We were getting ready to bathe him and took
the bandage off to check the site. It
did not look great. Then he peed. The urine shot straight out through the stitches,
not out the new opening where it was supposed to come out. I was so upset and ran to the phone. I called the hospital and wanted to run him
back. I told them what was going on and
that pee was coming out of the stitches. The whole area was so red and
swollen. They told me there was nothing anyone could
do. We would have to let it heal and do
the surgery again. I was trying to
persuade them to let me bring him in. I
didn't want to just let it heal wrong.
They told me that sometimes the cells can overcompensate as they heal
and that maybe they had done that, growing over the opening and closing it off.
As I was on the phone with the hospital, Brian was still in
the bathroom with our baby boy. Brian
did not like to see, let alone touch, the wound. I was the one who dressed it
and took care of it. He was great moral
support, but I did the bloody stuff. In
fact, with any "owie" at our house, I usually took care of
things.
Brian walked into the living room where I was sitting on the
floor, crying on the phone. He was
holding something between his fingers and the baby was crying. I hung up.
"What happened!? What did
you do?"
"I said a prayer and thought I should pull this off, so
I did."
"You pulled what off?
He's bleeding! Is that
skin?"
I couldn't believe that he had touched it at all, let alone
pulled some of his tender skin off. What
had he done?! I was so worried he had
done something that was not good. He
couldn't even explain what he had done.
Time went by and we left the baby's diaper off. He peed again and not one drip of urine came
out through the stitches. It all came
out the new opening where it should.
Brian must have pulled off the skin that was growing over the new
opening. He had not been on the
phone. He was alone with the baby.
The baby continued to
heal correctly. We took him in at six
weeks post operation for the doctor to examine.
At first, we did not tell her anything so we could see what she would
notice. She said that he had healed
perfectly and she was ready to walk out of the room. We tried to tell her what had happened and
she acted like we were crazy. There is
nothing wrong with him. Everything
healed just as it should.
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